How hot do you like it ? Another question from Amber

[lil_dixiedarling]

Originally Posted by spanked~amber

For Bottoms/Spankees : Well after a spanking, do you enjoy the after feel, perhaps a little soreness or sting as much as how it feels during the spanking & does light marking make you happy or grumpy ?

I love an afterfeel .... unfortunately i tend to heal so quickly that the sting and throb that i look for as a sense of accomplishment and reminder of good time isn't something i get alot.....I also am of the boat that doesn't mind a few bruises if they come up, but again i don't really mark for long except for one spot on my right cheek. I am never more happy when I get to wear a nice set of stripes from my tops cane though that is the best feeling for me...

Sherie...my two cents

[nightowl]

Sherie, I'm the same way....Love the spanking, the sting, etc, but the marks don't seem to last long enough for me anymore... I don't even like to rub afterward because I want the sting to LAST...... I too LOVE my cane stripes (DanDan got a new cane....yummmmy).....I like alittle brusing if it comes up, and I so love sitting down and feeling the uncomfortable feeling of a sore sweet spot....and although not a top, I prefer the redder the "bedder" as paully says.

[EricaScott]

I'll join the ranks of the women who love the afterfeel, the soreness and the marks... although I almost never mark anymore, which bums me out. I want evidence of what I took! -- Erica