How hot do you like it ? Another question from Amber
 

I figured I was entitled to a few actually, since I haven't asked any in awhile.:rolleyes:

For Bottoms/Spankees : Well after a spanking, do you enjoy the after feel, perhaps a little soreness or sting as much as how it feels during the spanking & does light marking make you happy or grumpy ?

For Tops/Spankers : Do you prefer applying a faint pink, red, or deep red shade to a bottom ? Should the bottom be allowed to rub or not after an "earned" spanking ?
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Toward a medium pink to a medium red, but not bruised, is just right for me. I also have a keen preference for placement, i.e. where the redness (and therefore, the sting) is on the bottom.

my preference is warm and pink.....oh wait, that is my steak at Texas Roadhouse. As far as spanking goes...the redder the bedder.

I agree with RG. I don't like leaving bruises or welts. I like a nice deep even shade of red. Especially near the sweet spot.

I love having residual soreness! It's a nice reminder. I also don't mind marks, or even bruises altho I don't mark/bruise very easily. When I have actually sustained markings for more than a day, I check them often and, in a weird sick way, am actually a bit proud of them! When RG switched me for the first time, the switch actually ended up wrapping just a bit and leaving welts that lasted (ever so faintly, but still present) for months.

I have a topic that is somewhat related to this, but rather than hijack the thread, may pose it on a different thread. :)

sarah

I love the sting and heated feeling on my bum to last for hours afterwards. And I love the reddest hue possible from a hand spanking. I will actually look at my bum in the mirror several times to admire it, it also keeps turning me on for the rest of the night. I will rub my bum during a spanking only so that he'll hold my wrist aside and spank harder.

Sherie, I'm the same way....Love the spanking, the sting, etc, but the marks don't seem to last long enough for me anymore... I don't even like to rub afterward because I want the sting to LAST...... I too LOVE my cane stripes (DanDan got a new cane....yummmmy).....I like alittle brusing if it comes up, and I so love sitting down and feeling the uncomfortable feeling of a sore sweet spot....and although not a top, I prefer the redder the "bedder" as paully says.

I'll join the ranks of the women who love the afterfeel, the soreness and the marks... although I almost never mark anymore, which bums me out. I want evidence of what I took! :D -- Erica

I like to see nice light red from hand spanking and nice clear lines from caning. My lady likes a good glow with pain she can feel for a while afterwards