Punishement implements curiosity

[lil_babygirl]

Just wanted to get some insight from everyone. What are your thoughts about punishment implements?

I mean.. all implements can be used as punishment or play but how is it decided to have that one certain implement to be used as punishment only and why.

I have a leather paddle with holes I use for punishment. The only true difference between a spanking and a punishment spanking is intent. Since intent can not always be communicated easily, I've found it easier to signify that THIS paddle means I am displeased and you are being punished. I learned this behaviour after being displeased with someone and after cooling off the sight of thier bare naked ass on my lap distracted me. With the paddle in my hand, I remember why and don't get as easily distracted.

Darius

[lil_babygirl]

Thanks Darius... that makes sense. Hopefully others will post too... such as coming from a bottoms point of view and a Tops point of view.

[jerseysweet]

I have a hairbrush that is reserved for punishment only. I am sure it could be used for goodgirl/other spankings but as I have two hairbrushes, this one has only been used for punishment and has come to be a symbol. Also, belts to me are pure punishment....not leather straps, but...belts...

[spanked~amber]

Larger paddles(school type ect) are definatly considered as "punishment" implements in my book. But there are smaller wooden paddles that used with less intensity gets my attention in a more uhmm exciting way..Many posts ago I replied to a similiar thread with a list of implements and how I rated them.

[imapuckhead04]

Unfortuantely I cannot answer this one properly. Since I am sooo very sweet and innoncent I have never been punished!

However in my twisted little world I think it all comes down to communication! The forms above are defintely non-verbal forms. I think I would prefer the verbal method. To patiently explain what happened and why I am displeased and why the punishmnet is taking place.


Puck
As fresh and Pure as freshly driven snow!

[lil_babygirl]

Originally Posted by spanked~amber

Larger paddles(school type ect) are definatly considered as "punishment" implements in my book. But there are smaller wooden paddles that used with less intensity gets my attention in a more uhmm exciting way..Many posts ago I replied to a similiar thread with a list of implements and how I rated them.

Thanks for posting your links, amber.. very nice btw. Wood is a bad thing.. ugh

[hwyman]

Punishment v.s. non-pumishment spanking to me is more of how its done and intent rather than impement used. Each implement has it's own feel and I don't care to limit there use in play by restricting the use of one for a sinle purpose. Instead I prefer to alter it use so that what ever is at hand can be used when it is needed to make a piont. That way punishment spankings can be given anywere anytime they are needed and not just when the implemnt chosen is at hand.

For myself I have a wooden hairbrush. My partner hates it enough that usually just letting her see it is enough to make her behave. So I consider that a very effective punishment implement.

[EmmyDoll]

I agree with several of the members of this post.

Especially Puck and Kaylex.

Capsasin is wicked horrible and I never want to feel it on my backside again. EVER.

And my punishment goes strictly along with the word that accompany implements. I would rather take a harsh spanking then to hear that I've 'disappointed' someone or 'let the down'

However, I find that some Top's use the phrase way to easily. I understand that each and every time that you disobey you are 'disappointing' him a little and he should make that disappointment know to you by letting a hand fall on you backside. But to actually pull that card is for serious infractions... at least in my book.

Because the point of a punishment/discipline is not to mentally hurt that person. (Possibly physically.. especially since we talk about spanking!) But telling someone that they're disappointed in them to much can lead to low self esteem and heartache. If a Bottom feels as if they are not making their top be proud of them at all... things fall apart.

But words are a very, very big reminded that you've done something wrong and you're about to pay the concequences.

As for implements, I agree with Jersey. I hold the belt in a very high place for that.

There is not an implement that can get me to behave quicker.

A lot of people have hairbrushes... I have yet to get one, and I'm sure once I establish a relationship I will have my 'bad girl' hairbrush... or... one day I want it to be "Emmy's Hairbrush."

You know. The guy says... "Emmy go bring me YOUR hairbrush."

Well.. That's all she wrote on this one guys.

(Maybe I'm just trying to post... *ish one post away from Senior Memeber*)