A Matter Of Respect

[emily]

awwww wow!! what a very lovely post. thank you so much Batty

[texringer]

Thanks for saying what needed saying, clearly and respectfully.

I've posted on this topic before and it needs to be reiterated frequently!! From those to whom much is given, much is expected. We as Tops have an absolute responsibility to ensure that the Bottoms are treated with dignity and kindness....and that limits are always communicated and respected.

I like to think that most of us are pretty nice guys......don't let a handful of jerks ruin it for us. 'Nuff said.

rb

[innocent_nympho]

lol normally I would agree with you batman. i too think that in-person meetings are important in the formation of relationships. after all, inevitably, if you want reality, you have to take the internet into your physical world. however, that being said, in this particular case, i'll have to disagree. i told him i lived in toronto, he said he lives in montana, and then said i needed to come see him asap...and this is without an introduction....or a name.

[paully62]

keep tryin

[Batman]

Originally Posted by innocent_nympho

lol normally I would agree with you batman. i too think that in-person meetings are important in the formation of relationships. after all, inevitably, if you want reality, you have to take the internet into your physical world. however, that being said, in this particular case, i'll have to disagree. i told him i lived in toronto, he said he lives in montana, and then said i needed to come see him asap...and this is without an introduction....or a name.

Umm.. That's not moving to a meeting quickly. That's being an idiot. I meant after about one or two weeks and not letting the online thing drag on for months on end. And, by all means, have names. In fact, I'm in huge favor of asking for a scanned copy of a photo ID so you have a name and address. I'm more than willing to do this for a person. I just black out things that could be dangerous for ID theft like the Drivers License number or SS#. So, I think we are on the same page, Innocent.

[innocent_nympho]

lol word.