How do I get a spanking?

[innocent_nympho]

oh, and i guess i have a continuation question for anyone who's willing to take a stab at it: how do i get him to even spank me to that point where it will even be considered a "warm-up" spanking if he's so completely hung up on the idea that it will bruise? i'm talking about a guy who will give me a few light swats and then tell me, oh, this is going to bruise you so much. ridiculous, i know, but i can't get him to go further to even get the opportunity to convince him that it won't happen.

if anyone wants to take a stab at this, i'd really appreciate it.