i was very naughty and now my fate lies in your hands!

[batfinch]

I think you need to go through them all one week at a time

[aurora]

There's no trust where there's infidelity, and there shouldn't be any spanking where there's no trust.

It's not a magic cure-all. If the situation is real, develop some real remorse first (as you've not demonstrated any yet), then work on rebuilding the relationship. Then, and only then, should you worry about appropriate "punishments".

[Jean-Paul]

I will have to agree with Aurora here...I couldn't have said it better

[sorebum]

Your poor behind will pay. Then you'll be the sorebum. I empathize. And a little bit I wish I were you. Ouch.

[Billy Wizz]

I basically agree with aurora.

You need to build up the trust in the relationship before you can consider the spanking option to cleanse the guilt.

You certainly deserve a spanking at the right time but the time isn't right yet.

I would also suggest your partner reads up carefully on spanking and spanking methods before he gives you a harsh punishment spanking.

[Redskinluver]

I agree with Aurora, and everyone else who said that a spanking is not appropriate in this case, not at this time. Like they say its a matter of rebuilding trust. Or maybe even the relationship is over.
Also, since both you and your bf sound like novices in the scene, I am concerned about the scenarios, they all sound very severe and excessive, you're talking hundreds of licks. A spanking should not be something that causes major physical injury. Perhaps it is your feeling that a severe beating would help purge your guilt.
Maybe if you decide to go ahead with a spanking, maybe a maximum of 100 with the hand on your bare bottom, or up to 50 with the hand and a max of the same number with a hairbrush or CB paddle, or one similar.
Others may have other suggetions for you.
But remember, a spanking is not a "magic bullet" that will cure personal problems.

[spankingprincess2005]

i agree with aurora . spanking doesnt come naturally to some people it took me 3 yrs to find the one for the lifestlye .. but i am not a newbie to spanking

[angelgirlwithhorns]

I agree with the rest, spanking is not a magic cure all. You have to trust and you have broke the trust.
I know for me, I would be heart broken, that my trust had been broke and a spanking would not fix the heart.
My love and I have a golden rule, He does not spank me when he is as angry as I know your boyfriend is, because it will not be done in loving correction or passion, but in anger and thats not what spanking is about.