Hello

[sarah thorne]

Originally Posted by Spanker40

Hello I am male around 40 in Tennessee, Into spanking and even sometimes being spanked. I am married but the wife isn't into this sort of thing. And with kids around not real easy to spank the wife. And like I said she doesn't really like it so I am considering finding a discreet playmate. So what is worse to try and spank her knowing she isn't into it or finding a girl who is into it?

I am assuming you are talking about finding a playmate without your wife's knowledge. No one else can really answer "which is best" for you, because ultimately you are the one who is going to have to live with whatever decision you make.

sarah