Tears and Spanking

[Veronica Daniels]

I wish sometimes I could keep my tears in. I do not cry at every spanking, that is forsure! I do cry from disciplinary spankings when I feel that I have let Dr. D or myself down and sometimes from pain. It makes me feel very vulnerable and exposed, but sometimes it really takes away from the spanking to try and keep them in. At times it is very cathartic to cry and I know that is what I need. I am so thankful that my good Doctor D knows that however I respond to a spanking is what needs to happen and is OK with it. If I cry it is just fine with him and he knows just how to deal with it and if I do not cry it is OK, too. Once he tried to make me cry during a spanking and all it did was make me really defiant and truly took away from the experience. So we both learned from that what does not work for us.

I think everyone has a different response to spanking based on their personality and what is going on emotionally with them at the time. I have learned as a Top to really take the time to read my bottom as well as I can during the spanking and respect the emotional and physical responses I am getting. As a bottom I have learned to just let out what needs to come out and be in the moment.

Best regards-
Veronica