Kaylex and Emmy Show: Part Trois

[RG_]

Originally Posted by EmmyDoll

Everyone was always concered about Emmy's bottom. Maybe it was because I was knew, maybe it was because I'm Emmy, and maybe its was because my backside looked like hell.

And maybe it was partly because it afforded the opportunity for someone to rub a young, attractive bottom.

Not that, uh, I, personally, would ever have such a motive in mind.

(Looks furtively over shoulder, whistles non-chalantly.)

[kaylex]

A hush has fallen over the crowd and we are slightly afraid that ya'll have fallen asleep like Paully at a three Am spanking. Well thank you to those who weighed in on this topic. As always you can keep weighing. So here are my thoughts on after care (I know you've all been waiting with Baited breath):

Honestly, I'm not horribly concerend with it. If I'm playing and I don't know the person well I'm not really interested in rubbing or cuddeling afterwords. In fact unless I'm in a relationship with you I'm not gonna cuddle. The rubbing and lotioning ,If we're tight and I trust them, then that can be great. Otherwise I can handle it myself. Arnica is My Friend! Although if you want to give me candy or beads after a spanking that is always appreciated!

And that's all I got to say about that!
Kaylex

[kaylex]

Ok Folks,
Here's the next fascinating topic that the Kaylex and Emmy Show is going to delve into. Once again we're gonna get slightly more edgy! This one was inspired by our Own Emmy's Blog, But honed in a little.

Let's talk about Self spanking? There's many sides to this:

Bottoms: Have you ever done it? Have you ever been directed to do it? Has it done any good (take the edge off, take the guilt away, etc?), How does it make you feel (forgiven, stupid, frustrated, etc)? Is there anything that really works when doing self spanking that isn't so important when your in person?

Tops: Have you ever directed it? Would it turn you on to see it or hear it? Have you noticed that it made any difference? Do you add anything to the punishment if it's given that way?

Ok no holds bar here.... Post on!
Kaylex

[BlackVelvet007]

Originally Posted by kaylex

Tops: Have you ever directed it? Would it turn you on to see it or hear it? Have you noticed that it made any difference? Do you add anything to the punishment if it's given that way?

Yes, Yes, not really, and not really. Now for the longer answers.

I've had spankees spank themselves on the phone while we were talking. They use a implement heavy enough so I can hear the swats being applied. The swats are usually counted. When the opportunity arises, sometimes it's done over a webcam. When you can't be there in person to do it yourself, it's an ok substitute. Beats typing (SMACK)(SMACK)(SMACK) by a country mile.

[teefortexas]

Self-spanking?
SNORT!! Oh yeah, there's a harsh lesson.

(tap) (tap) (tap) Has Me learned my lesson yet?
(tap) (tap) (tap) Is Me going to be a good girl now?
Okay Sweety-Me........duly chastised.
Let's move on to the self-aftercare part...


Terry

[emily]

just dont see the point in self spanking.. how boring..

[kaylex]

I have done it on plenty of occasions... though not recently.

Hey when you're a bottom from birth and you have a fascination but you NEVER get spanked (was I just THAT good or did my parents not spank?.... you decide) you gotta do SOMETHING! Some kids had imaginary friends as children... I had whole imaginary towns and in my imaginary towns I got spanked. And the only way to reall get spanked in an imaginary town is to do it yourself. Some of you know I LOVE implements and variety and I did even way back then.... I'm not even going to go into all the crazy things I would use.

Ok so then I discovered the internet. 13 I started playing on-line, at 14 I moved to the phone. This Was MUCH more fun then on-line and I had left my imaginary play towns years before. It was still all role play but it scratched the itch so to speak.

Then I didn't need any of this for years becasue of where life took me. But 10 months ago when I broke up with my fiance....the spanking itch came on so strong it was all I could do at the time to fill it.

I contacted an old boyfriend who cared more about spanking then me (ok not very wise but I was only using him for spanking this time) and asked him to mentor me, long distance. Well the mentoring REALLY didn't work out but it did hold the "spanking itch" at bay....

And then I met the BU crowd and now I have no need for self spanking!

So to recap, yes I've self spanked. I definately think DIRECTED self-spanking is better then just self spanking but in a pinch both work. additional things that make the punishment worse...... Capsizine Cream (horrible, nasty, wicked) and sitting on a heating pad with the cream on.......

So that's my story.... Who else is brave enough to speak up on this one?

All Spanked up (and this time not from self-spanking)
kaylex

[imapuckhead04]

I self spanked for quite awhile as it was my only outlet. That was pre discovery of the spanking community. It was not all that satisfying but far better than nothing.

Once I had been spanked by someone else though it lost what allure it had for me.

But I am thankful as it allowed me to explore alot of what I liked and did not like with no risk. It filled the need at the time. And allowed me to explore more about myself. Which is a good thing.

[kaylex]

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