Simple question

[emily]

i would think the endorphins would be different for everyone..

[aurora]

Sarah is right about the blood flow, coupled with the fact that the body naturally increases blood flow to just about any stimuli, and spanking is definately stimulating. Endorphins are a whole 'nother matter, though. There's no basic biological trigger to release them. We can't say, "if you spank her to this particular point, she'll drift into subspace." It just doesn't work that way. In fact, I would venture that the vast majority of spankings don't result in that big endorphin rush.

I know from my own personal perspective that I thought the endorphins were responsible for that calm sorta feeling I have after a spanking. I didn't know until I actually got that endorphin high for the first time last week what the real difference was.

It's just one more facet of our lifestyle that's part of the psychological game we play. EVERYTHING varies according to ourselves and our partners and how we interact. You've just got to find the right buttons to push with your partner if you're interested in that endorphin release.

[Dingan]

If you want to learn about the relationship of endorphins in the scene, just do a Google search or use any of your favorite search engines -- Dogpile, Lyacos, etc. Just type in endorphins + spanking, and you will get several good pages of info to study. Some of it is simple and some is technical. I find it interesting that the subject has been actually studied, but hey, we scientists can be spankos also.

[RG_]

I'm just wondering how to achieve that Top endorphin high? Or is that something like multiple orgasms? As males, we are destined to never taste the experience?

[kaylex]

When talking to my dear bottom friend the other day she was asking questions about me using the term subspace. I discribed it as best I could and mentioned that a good top friend of mine ushered me into the best subspace of my life after all-state. Her comment:

You mean I have to fake it in the spanking world like I had to with Sex!

LOL,
Kaylex

[wildcard]

Just the opposite. Once your are content with your likes and dislikes, the point is you DON'T have to fake it!
Its getting there that can be the issue, but forums such as this are responsible for lots of us finally finding harmony and contentment in our activities and relationships.

[wildcard]

It's just the opposite. Once you are at peace with your personal likes and dislikes, and are with someone of like mind, you DON'T have to fake it! Thanks to forums like this one many of us are on the road to (finally) fulfillment.