Active Real Life?

[bushmutt]

Had a couple of lady friends and a girlfriend into spanking, though none at the moment. Met them all through the net. (ALT and Lavalife)
Am somewhat averse to play parties. Something about sharing your real life partner (ie. girlfriend) just doesn't appeal to me, though I would understand why it would appeal to others.
also, am sort of a shy person, so the idea of going to play in a public place doesn't realy turn my crank, and I find that some of the fetish events in my city (Montreal) are quite commercial in orientation, mostly frequented by goths and fetish fashionistas and less so much by Ma and Pa Spankerton.
I actually find the dress codes at these events rather discrciminatory, as you aren't allowed jeans (jeans really turn my crank), and most people come in leather/goth/PVC/rubber dress, which really does nothing for me.
Nothing against people who are into that. But meetings of beautiful snooty people just doesn't crack it for me. Maybe I'd enjoy going to munches more...
Rather scary meeting groups of other kinky people though.
I mean, we're all crazy, right? (LOL)