Switches: How readily can you switch?

[sarah thorne]

I would not be comfortable switching. As bossy and assertive as I can be, I am submissive and would not be able to spank someone else for real, especially the one to whom I am submissive. It would mess with the dynamic in my head.

sarah

[RG_]

Originally Posted by sarah thorne

I am submissive and would not be able to spank someone else for real, especially the one to whom I am submissive. It would mess with the dynamic in my head.

I've been out for awhile due to problems with the computer that I usually do my spanko stuff on, so am now just catching this comment by sarah. While I know that the question was directed to switches, since sarah replied I thought that I would add my side to it, also.

In my turn, neither can I switch. I am all Top/Dom, and it would, as sarah says, mess with the dynamic in my head.

I think that in our case it's one of the things that make us fit well in this regard. We are perfectly aligned and complementary in our spanking - D/s dynamic.

[DaddyDST]

I've found it fairly easy to switch. It takes me about 15 minutes or so to come out of subspace...although the warmth of my tush takes longer. I like doing it because for me its the best of both worlds. I love both feelings of being in control and then being controlled.

[spnks4life]

I can switch after about an an hour if I have been giving, if I receive it takes a little longer