spanking or abuse

[Oldtimersammy]

In years past spanking was normally considered a punishment. Giving a spanking to someone (Daughter, son, younger relation, etc.) was an action to persaude them not to do something again. that was considered wrong. Which I would think should be very firm, but certainly not cruel. Then of course it was and still is, arousing to spank a girlfriend or wife for being somewhat mischievious. Which opens a new corridor into sexuality. This is when role playing becomes important, while also committing to one's limits. I would think anyone in this kind of relationship (Which I'am sure is very common on this website) Should respect their partner's wishes and pain threshold limits! Anything beyond that is being cruel.

[Kyra]

I think if both people are of legal age or whatever and both are 100% happy with the situation no matter how tame or serve it is not abuse. (Obviousely relationship wise and not any other way as a sexual thing only)