I echo the sentiments of everyone else. Do what makes YOU feel good -- don't try to reach some standard you feel is there to make you a "true spanko".
True spankos like spanking! And spankings come in all forms! A few smacks on the bare bottom with the hand. Over panties. Over pants. Hairbrush, maybe. A belt. No implements at all, and never unless it's during sex. Some play for the sake of playing. Some incorporate discipline and punishment. Some get spanked for stress relief. Some start out hard and want to cry, have their limits pushed. Others just want the light, tingling sensation that comes from a light hand spanking. Some like public display, others prefer privacy of their endeavors.
Tolerance is also something that has to be built up for most people. But some never even want to get to that level and that is okay too, cuz that is what THEY want.
sarah
(who is sometimes a wimp and sometimes hardcore)
