My first experience

[Johh]

Hello,

I am new to the forum and wanted to shae my story.

I am recently married, but before getting married I have been with my wife for over 9 years. She has always been the submissive one and I have always been the dominant one, but recently things are changing. One night, we were messing around on the couch when suddenly she delivered a firm smack to my ass. I was kind of stunned at first, but I kind of shrugged it off and we continued to mess around. Then, she delivered another one, and then a few minutes later she delivered another one!

Slowly, it got to the point where we were on the couch gazing into each others eyes as she delivered the smacks to my ass! This went on for quite some time until my ass cheek was red! I was completely stunned by the whole thing, but I couldn't bring myself to protest! It felt so wrong, but at the same time it kind of felt right. I have never felt that sort of powerless feeling before. Afterwards, we just sort of snuggled on the couch without really saying anything and I just laid my head on her chest. It was truly a surreal feeling.

After that night, nothing like that really happened again for a while and things seemed to go back to normal. The next time that it happened again was when we were messing around again a few days after we made up from a fight that we had about something. Sort of the same scenario. The first smack to my ass came out of nowhere, except this time they were more firm and more frequent, to the point of discomfort. I sort of made an attempt to move away as it got more uncomfortable, but she reached around with her other hand and kind of held me there and continued to smack my ass. Again, we were face-to-face with each other, and she seemed to make it a point to look into my eyes as she did it. I was feeling embarrassed, so the last thing that I wanted to do was look at her, but I really had no choice. Afterwards, we just laid there together on the couch again like the first time that it happened and as my hot cheek cooled down, she whispered to me in my ear "Maybe next time you won't argue with me and listen to what I have to say." I knew that she was referring to the fight that we had and I was really taken back by her comment. It was as if I were being punished for arguing with her!

This whole side of her really seemed to come out of nowhere and now I think that this is just a sign of things to come, because she has even been more firm and deliberate during sex! Funny thing is as embarrassed as I was during the spankings, I can't bring myself to tell her to stop! Like I said before, it's so wrong but it also feels right!

Anybody go through a similar scenario? I would really like a woman's perspective on this as well.

Thanks