Personal Spanking Preferences

hi this is all new to me i love to be spanked but only by my big daddy she really knows how to punish this bad girl i love the hand but would like to try other things not to hard though and i love to find a private place in the woods bare my bottom and let her spank away

[Garfield]

I'm new here too, like Ami, and it's also my first time posting a comment. Everybody here has been super nice so far! I've only had one partner I've been bold enough to talk to about my interest in spanking.
We used to love having her bend over the edge of the bed, with me using using a belt. Sometimes even the belt she was wearing... :-)

Garfield

[texas_jack]

Ok, at the risk of loosing my man card....my favorite position is over her knee, and my absolute all time favorite impliment has always been her hand. As much as I enjoy most all of the impliments that have been used on me there is just something about the intamicy of an otk hand spanking that I absolutely love. I truely enjoy being warmed up with her hand and then finished off the same way.

I LOVE OTK. As a giver or reciever. And I HATE the cane. For me it leaves me cold. So I guess those are my two hot and cold extremes. I guess my "hate but not really" category would be filled with corner time.

[goth63]

Re: Spanking Preferences
I love to be put over a woman's bare legs and given a sound spanking on my bare bottom with her hand. After I'm good and red I am ordered over to a desk or chair for a moderate paddling. I enjoy feeling the paddle on my lower end of my buttocks. It tends to leave more of a sharper sting. I love being lectured inbetween swats and timed about one minute apart. Makes me feel naughty.

Being a brat in public or in front of her friends is a good reason for a spanking.
I love being naughty in public.

Even being spanked in front of her friends can add to the experience.

[spanked~amber]

First I want to say a big welcome to the new members !

Now for my preferences...

My favorite position(s) is over the side of the bed but partially over the leg. OTK is a little difficult if the top spanking you forgets to check on ya and your almost on your head cause your feet don't touch the floor. Of course over a lap on a couch or bed has a lot of advantages
*Positions: I would have to say that my least favorite position is bending over and grabbing knees or ankles. Maybe it's because the bottom is stretched more in this position -I don't know, but OMG triple owww. I hate not having some kind of intimate contact when it's for the purposes of a " play spanking." Now of course for discipline(shhh!) I understand that this is supposed to be uncomfortable & unpleasant. If I liked it than I would repeat that offense I'm being spanked for over and over, now wouldn't I ?
*Subspace: Sensual spankings definitely send me to subspace(spankospace) Hey I just invented a new word !
In order for me to get there though it can't start out super intense, I love the buildup time ...I can take a lot more for a longer period of time if there is that long warm up involved.
*Bratting-I hope I'm not considered a huge brat. I'm very spunky at times as much so outside of the spanking realm as in it. That's just part of my personality. I don't think being a teensy bit bratty is a crime but I think it can go overboard if it's not in the right place. I think it depends on the relationship and how well you know one another. Some Tops like it(I can tell, believe me) and some abhor it. Then there or those that I guess can take it in small doses.

[Adelina]

I LOVE SPANKING!

That sums it up quite well in itself, but of course there's always more to the story.

My interest in spanking has historically been heavily erotic; as an adolescent, it was all that I thought about. I've evolved to a point where I enjoy it for its own sake, and even feel relieved that I can enjoy the activity without worrying about needing to "return the favor" or feeling pressured. But I remain very attracted to the sensual nature of it. I love the headspace, the pain, the pressing of thighs against my abdomen. I love trying different implements, just to know what they feel like. I love long sessions started with a long, slow warmup and ending in blissful spaciness.

If I had to pick a preferred "type" of spanking, it would be therapeutic/release. I am prone to stress and depression, and spanking activity always makes me more relaxed and peaceful. It's like a drug for me; I get high on it. The more, the harder, the better.

I enjoy verbal jousting and playfulness, though I would not consider myself a "brat" by nature. Teasing can be fun, but so can wrestling and being carried and tossed around. When it comes to scenes, I'm usually not interested in meekly obeying anyone; I like to fight. I like being restrained. I like hair-pulling. I like kicking and resisting. I love listening to a quiet, confident voice assuring me I won't get away; that can lull me right into subspace.

I'm an OTK girl all the way, love the way it makes me feel connected and secure. I do enjoy other positions too, over pillows on the bed or over a table or desk... anything that supports my body, so I can focus on the sensations and not on trying to keep my balance. But any session really needs to include some OTK time, or it feels incomplete.

I have no interest whatsoever in discipline, or in my spanko life overlapping my real life. I like them to be carefully quarantined. I have made some strong friendships within this scene which I cherish, and I appreciate sage advice. If I want help, I will ask for it. Otherwise, keep it casual.

[garyspk]

Originally Posted by Adelina

I LOVE SPANKING!


I'm an OTK girl all the way, love the way it makes me feel connected and secure. I do enjoy other positions too, over pillows on the bed or over a table or desk... anything that supports my body, so I can focus on the sensations and not on trying to keep my balance. But any session really needs to include some OTK time, or it feels incomplete.

I have no interest whatsoever in discipline, or in my spanko life overlapping my real life. I like them to be carefully quarantined. I have made some strong friendships within this scene which I cherish, and I appreciate sage advice. If I want help, I will ask for it. Otherwise, keep it casual.

Very nice job, Adelina. Well-stated and direct. You gotta love that. I too am a huge fan of OTK.

I love OTK with a hand or a paddle. First over my pants, then over panties, then bare. Also bent over the arm of a couch. I was tied up on all fours, but didn't like it so much. I would luv to be bent over a table, my pants around my ankles. Another thing I want is lying naked on a bed, ass propped up by pillows, hands tied behind my back. Just gotta find someone to help me out.

[liz]

I think I'll jump in here. I suppose some of this is theoretical as I haven't experienced some of this yet. Anyway, since I am mostly into it as a sensual/erotic experience, I think there is an intimacy of OTK. And also hand spanking. I also have only experienced wood paddles, but the cane/standing or bending over, or anything like this leave me very cool. Funny thing that in a sexual spanking, I like all that "you won't sit down for a week" and "I'm going to burn your buns", etc etc. etc. It's as sexy to me as " f** me hard" as some people like to say.

I would be interested in role play discipline, maybe, if it were figured out ahead of time some minor infractions that I would (maybe would like ) to do. But it would have to be a joint decision and I would want some absolute safe word. (Maybe this trust thing is quite a big issue, as I have seen first hand spousal abuse.) But I have a few boundaries here and I wouldn't say want certain types of punishments like soaping (was already done to me as a kid and was totally negative and nasty, imo) and gags. OTOH, I might consent to some other things. However, I might like to try mild bonds or corner time.

Someone mentioned therapeutic spanking for release and so on. There is a lot to be said for that, just speaking of my own self-spanking. The times it is most useful for me are during unusual stress, sleeplessness and that sort of thing.

Bratting isn't my thing. I can be annoying but I think that's different. I mean I am genuinely so. :-)



--des