How did you find a Partner?

[Farmgirl]

He found ME. This was long before I knew that computers and the internet existed, so that had nothing to do with it. Because I had had some 'spanking adventures' with boys, I did know (vaguely) that I liked that sort of attention, teasing and playing submissive and getting spanked.

Anyway, I was raised on a farm by my grandmother and when I turned 18 she decided to sell the farm and move to town. My guy was the real estate agent. He was 25 at the time. The first time he was there with his dad, who he was in business with. He kept coming back to the farm, ostensibly to take pictures of the buildings and such, but I quickly understood that it was really to see me.

On one of these occasions I served him some pepsi and managed to spill a little on him. We had been goofing around so he laughed and said I was careless and ought to be spanked! So he pulled me down across his lap and gave me a few love pats. I was so thrilled I almost wet my pants!

Long story short: we courted, we 'sparked' as my grandmother would say, we had a love affair in the traditional sense, and we got married. Along the way he taught me what erotic spanking was all about (he wasn't a novice!) After 17 years he is still spanking me (as foreplay) and I am still thoroughly enjoying it.

[garyspk]

Farmgirl,

Thanks for the background on you. Those are great accounts and you're very lucky to have found someone that shares your interest and that you "spark" with. It's very hard to find that!

Gary

[nakedaytrader]

This blog is for my Master RT, as a gift. I want to share my most personal feelings for him and how I got involved in the lifestyle. I am a newbi, that is what RT likes to call me and this is my journey into how I am learning to become his submissive.

Background: I have only known RT for about a month and from the moment I met him I have fallen head over heels. For years I have fantasized about living the life of a submissive, a slave to her man, or simply wanting to be spanked in the bedroom. I am 36 years old with two children and have always led a vanilla lifestyle but have dreamed of something more erotic, loving and disciplining form of a relationship.

RT is a well experienced dominant who has no patience in dealing with someone as new as I. But somehow I have warmed his heart and as you read the stories of our journey together you will see how I am learning day by day how to serve my Master and how my mistakes are punished and my obedience is rewarded.

I look forward in hearing your comments and perhaps suggestions on how I can be a better sub to my man.

http://reinartsubmissjourney.blogspot.com/

[ProfMike]

I picked up my present partner on SIN I noticed she had viewed my profile and being located within 20 miles of me and having what appeared to be a mirrior image of my own requirements I sent a message and the rest is history

She has a particular needs of regular chastisement to correct unusual and unaceptable behaviourand I am in a position to provide this and I am happy to do so.

I have a need of someone to spank on a regular basis and she is only to happy to provide the bottom which reddens up in a very pleaseing way, so I am hopeing this arrangement will continue for a long time to come.

Mike XXX

[Jamesdolan]

Interesting....after being with my spouse for over 20 years, she finally voiced HER interest in being spanked. She has always been shy and reserved yet very classy and sexy. After hearing of her interest we tried it recently. Needless to say we have had a couple of very hot and VERY WET sessions. I am looking forward to providing her the punishment she deserves.

[wkp]

I am new to the spanking community. Although I have fantasized about being spanked for most of my life, I have only gone public with this within the past month. I have yet to meet a spanking partner or even have my first spanking experience.

I began posting to another spanking forum, admittedly for the sole purpose of finding a partner to play with. I also posted a few personals here and there, but that is not really my style, To date, I have yet to connect with anyone even remotely close to me geographicly or in profile. In the process though, I have discovered a whole community of respectful, open minded and honest people. I can't believe how easy it has been for me to talk <type> about an aspect of me that I felt the need to keep secret for so many years. Regradless of whether or not I meet someone to play with, I feel lucky to have found this community.

Relating this to the actual topic, I belong to several athletic related message boards. I have made many friends through those boards that I have brought into real life. I never went to those boards looking for people to workout with. It just happnes in the normal progression of internet friendship. I figure meeting a friend to share spanking interest with will probably go the same way. Perhaps this is newbie naitivity, but it is what I feel most comfortable with and allows me to be myself.

[spanked~amber]

Welcome WKP to the forum You have come to a friendly place let me assure you. I have not been in the spanking realm for very long, a little over a year now. So I guess you could say I'm still a newbie. However I've been spanked plenty in that amount of time so in that aspect I don't know if "new" still applies, lol. I relate very well to what you mentioned about fantasizing for so long and what it feels like to finally be able to publicly and openly talk with others. Be safe & choosy. It is loads of fun. I wish you tons of luck on fulfilling your spanking desire's ! Spanking parties, such as the Texas All-State one mentioned here on the forum, is a good way to get your spanking introduction. Theses type of events allow you to enter at your speed. You call all the shots as to what you are ready for, whether it be to play or to observe ect. Again welcome to MSF

[wkp]

[QUOTE=spanked~amber;1601]Welcome WKP to the forum You have come to a friendly place let me assure you..........QUOTE]


I have been in touch with a group that holds parties in my area. I am not sure parties are the right atmosphere for me though, especially for my first experience. I'm keeping an open mind to it. It is a little frustrating. Despite coming out, my fantasies remain just fantasies. I don't think my desired role as a male sub or being married helps my cause any. But, that's who I am ..... can't change that.

Thanks for the welcome Amber.

[wkp]

[QUOTE=wkp;1603]

Originally Posted by spanked~amber

Welcome WKP to the forum You have come to a friendly place let me assure you..........QUOTE]


I have been in touch with a group that holds parties in my area. I am not sure parties are the right atmosphere for me though, especially for my first experience. I'm keeping an open mind to it. It is a little frustrating. Despite coming out, my fantasies remain just fantasies. I don't think my desired role as a male sub or being married helps my cause any. But, that's who I am ..... can't change that.

Thanks for the welcome Amber.

..... oh yeah, Happy Birthday!

[Adelina]

Originally Posted by wkp

I don't think my desired role as a male sub or being married helps my cause any. But, that's who I am ..... can't change that.

I would strongly recommend you not try to change it! I tried things that I knew I didn't feel comfortable with, and it didn't lead anywhere good. Play around, experiment, but don't settle. Keep your standards high. It is frustrating, but when you find what you are looking for, the rewards will be awesome.