Help wanted please

[Jess]

Thank you very much for taking the time to help.

I see a long conversation and some trial and error testing in our future

Hugs

Jess

[Jess]

My intention was to have a long converstion with Steve this afternoon but I haven't managed to start the conversation.

So I emailed him and now I am going to ask him to check his email while I go clean the kitchen up from lunch.

There is about a thousand butterflies in my stomach at the moment - i just wish we had this conversation behind us.

Well here goes

[Jess]

Hello,

Well it worked and we talked and we had a maintenance spanking to renew our intent to DD and ourselves. Then we talked some more.

Yesterday was a great day.

Thanks everyone for helping

[Arianna]

I'm so happy for you (and Steve). You knew what you wanted/needed and didn't give up. Clear and direct communication works wonders, doesn't it? I believe you have just raised the bar!

When I look back over the years and how I had approached the subject, I wasn't giving my husband a complete picture. I was speaking in half sentences and just expecting him to read my mind. I (eventually) learned that that approach just didn't work. It was with the help of a few people here, at MSF, that I found the courage and the words to speak frankly and the results were staggering. I look forward to talking to you again in chat Jess!

[Batman]

Glad to know that things are going well. Something else that is just as important as the spanking in a real situation is the lecture regarding the behavior. In my experience, a good lecture will have a girl in tears before the spanking even starts. That is what really sets the tone and makes the spanking something that is to punish and forgive a misdeed versus something done because both parties enjoy it.

[Jess]

It's a work in progress but I am so pleased that I plucked up the courage to start the conversation albeit by email.

Arianna - I look forward to chat again too

[BlackVelvet007]

Sounds like you two are off to a great start. Steve's always welcome to come join us here, and we look forward to progress updates.