Crossing the line...

[dragonbratling]

I've been in a spanking lifestyle for almost 30 years now and when i was married my ex husband was abusive. he knew about my spanking lifestyle and he participated in it, but he was also stupid and tended to hit me. that lasted 3 times. i divorced him after the 3rd time, and no there were no broken bones, hospitalizations or anything extreme, he just wanted to hit me and i chose not to live like that. and i had no problem reporting him as an abuser. does that make me less submissive, i dont think so. i'm just strong enough to not be taken advantage of. but it doesnt stop me from being hurt sometimes, just opportunities to grow.