Personal Spanking Preferences

[Mike Schaeffer]

Originally Posted by Unstrungheart

I love OTK with a hand or a paddle. First over my pants, then over panties, then bare. Also bent over the arm of a couch. I was tied up on all fours, but didn't like it so much. I would luv to be bent over a table, my pants around my ankles. Another thing I want is lying naked on a bed, ass propped up by pillows, hands tied behind my back. Just gotta find someone to help me out.

Great to have you unstrung.... I'm thinking we need to arrange a trip South for ya'..... TX or Florida may be amenable to some of your interests

[EricaScott]

I think the term "bratting" has a negative connotation with some, that it doesn't really deserve, if it's done properly. To me, bratting isn't being malicious or nasty, or doing anything to cause real annoyance or anger. It's about being playful and feisty, about teasing and challenging the top a bit, seeing if he has a sense of humor. And of course, getting the desired result.

Sometimes, it's just more fun to ask for a spanking indirectly, with some sass. For those of us who chafe at being submissive, it is next to impossible to come right out and say, "Please, may I have a spanking?"

It's all about degrees. For example, if I'm at the dinner table with a top, it's harmless, bratty fun to dip my finger into the water glass and flick it at him, spraying him with just a few light droplets. It's NOT okay to do it with wine that will stain, or to knock the glass of water into his lap. -- Erica

[liz]

I don't think its wrong or wierd (I guess this all is relative huh?). I just wouldn't do it. Perhaps some of you are a bit younger too. Might have something to do with it.

--liz

[Mike Schaeffer]

I think having a girl brat a little with me can be fun, but again there has to be some kind of fore knowledge. If someone just came up and flicked water in my face I wouldn't necessarily assume that she wanted me to spank her. If we both knew before hand that she was getting spanked later then by all means, brat away.

[EricaScott]

Of course, Mike, there has to be context. I just used the water flick thing as an example -- it's the first thing that came to my mind. But I think you all know what I mean -- a bit of playful provoking that doesn't cause damage or anger can spice things up very nicely. -- Erica

[Mike Schaeffer]

Originally Posted by EricaScott

Of course, Mike, there has to be context. I just used the water flick thing as an example -- it's the first thing that came to my mind. But I think you all know what I mean -- a bit of playful provoking that doesn't cause damage or anger can spice things up very nicely. -- Erica

Absolutely Erica, a little bit of playfull annoyance can help to motivate me not only to spank, but to straighten out that noodle arm a bit