Sticks and Stones...

[nightowl]

Adelina, I agree with you that words/wording is important. depending on WHY I'm getting spanked (punishment/discipline, stress release, or fun), wording sets the intent and thus my head space surrounding the spanking.

For instance, words like "naughty", "missy",with some talking/lecturing me about my misbehaviors is what I need to "forgive" myself.....and of course "good girl", is always nice to hear at the end of a punishment spanking. I also like the word "little" Iggy.

During a stress relief spanking I don't like to hear much talking at all, just the sound of my bottom getting spanked.....and going back to the "crying" thread, when I cry, I feel my anxiety and stress dissolve....

I also don't like derogatory words, and teasing words are always appropriate during a fun spanking....There does that answer the question?? LOL