which do u perfer?

[Farmgirl]

In our early years together my guy and I were on career paths that kept us apart for periods of time, and he would call and tell me, tongue in cheek, that he was sure I was being naughty and would need a good spanking when we got back together. Then he would tell me what he thought constituted a "good" spanking!

Spanking had become foreplay for us so the idea wasn't new, but the announcing of it and my having to wait for it was. Prior to that it had been much more random and spontaneous. I was amazed how much I fixated on the spanking date! I loved the anticipation almost as much as the event itself!

Nowdays we aren't traveling any more and the notice is much shorter and is usually conveyed by a glance or by subtle body language. He has this way of cocking one eyebrow and setting his jaw, and those things drive me up the wall, too!

But it's not the same as being able to anticipate and let one's imagination run wild, anticipating for days ahead of time!