Vanilla Wife - Be happy with the effort or still want more?

[Chuckles]

Without a shadow of a doubt, you should be very grateful to your wife for the affection she's shown and the efforts she's made to accommodate you. Many vanilla spouses wouldn't do what your wife has already done. Also, be very thankful that she seems to have been honest with you about her reactions to the activities you've tried together. Many spouses wouldn't be that honest.

Should you hope for more? Well, perhaps. After all, the two of you seem to have gently started down the spanking road together, and you've both found at least some enjoyment along the way. It seems to me that extreme patience is the order of the day, though. There are many types of activities that involve spanking, and you've only experienced a few together. Maybe some of the activities you haven't yet tried will prove appealing to your wife if you both agree to try things out very slowly and carefully, with the understanding that if something doesn't work out, you can simply move on and perhaps try other things.

In order to avoid discomfort and turn-offs, you and your wife might consider exploring various types of spanking activities through sharing stories or videos together. That way you could sort of test the waters with your toes to determine if it's worth experimenting "live" with any particular types of spanking activities.

As an aside, don't forget that your wife may also have some favorite activities or fetishes that haven't yet been fully explored. I hope you'll encourage her to share her wishes and fantasies with you so that you can reciprocate.

Overall, be thankful that the two of you have such an open and constructive relationship, and remember that patience and communication will be the keys to your mutual enjoyment. Best wishes!