Where does Spanking fit?

[sister0163]

Hi Billy

As i read your question , i could not help but laugh, here we are again it is of each indevidual ,to decied what it is to them , in my opinion , you know like ,the question of did the egg come first or did the chicken?

is Spanking a part of BDSM, or is it,it's Own Indevidual Kink ,my opinion is it is Both !
BDSM is a complex combination of edges. and different leavels of play with in each genre of Kink, and that can include spanking . In the same spanking is it's own Proclivity , and therefore for some it is a seperate kink.

BDSM is based in power/controle .Or Power Exchange ie Giver/Reciver and that dose not mean only in pain or sex or discipline or bondage etc etc...

and in "my" opinion spanking uses that power /controle dynamic to work.

~ dena