Where's the respect?

[dragonbratling]

i do not consider myself a slave at all. a little submissive and a little brat definitely. i may or may not brat at a party, it just depends on the mood and the Top. i've seen other bottoms do things that i thought was disrespectful but i never said anything because i was going by my own perceptions and my past. if it was what the bottom and Top wanted, go for it. so i think that perhaps the disrespect is a matter of the observers own past and thought process.