I have been able to help a couple of women have release. It certainly hasn't only been from hard spanking but from a combination of many factors. After discussions have revealed that crying resulted from dissapointing me, the spanking itself, effective lecturing and scolding and being able to get into these womens heads. Others who haven't cried have been on the verge of tears just haven't gone over the plateau. I recall one other young woman I spanked (19). She cried just from the scolding and lecturing at the begining yet that didn't deter me from administering the spanking that was earned and deserved.