Veronica I may be able to find you that Lawyer, this is beyond description an injustice. I have never met you, I wish I did. I live in englewood Colo. You can reach me at ZIBMH@juno.com. To think this lifestyle would in any way make you less of a caring parent is moronic. Some people have zero braincells working. I hope I can help or that you get help. You are so much supported by a great deal of people. Hope to see you at Bandemere some time. But most of all I hope your problem is resolved soon. Take care.