Very sad to read this, Veronica. Scary too. We wonder if your husband was just bluffing. If he actually wanted custody, why say anything at all... why not just go straight for custody. Seems more like a power-play to us. Of course, you can't possibly risk it until you know exactly where you stand.
Also wonder what possible motivation this anonymous person had.
We're upset just reading about this! Can't begin to imagine what you're going through.
Wish we could do something. You will be in our thoughts though, and we really do hope this all works out.
hugs
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