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A lament
Why is it so hard to find a woman who spanks and is not over the top about it? I don't want this to sound like a rant but it is frustrating. It seems most of the women I have met online to chat with are into giving the severe kind of spankings that are borderline abusive. Sometimes it just seems like they want to punish men who want to be spanked just because that is what they want. And when you bring up that you aren't looking for that or respecting boundary issues, suddenly you are the one who is out of line.
Am I out of line thinking this? I'm a guy, I like to spank and be spanked. Why does that make me someone who should be severely punished? Seems to me it encourages people not to engage in fetishes they enjoy. Maybe its just me I don't know. I just want to find a woman who enjoys spanking, preferably giving and getting, to chat with or cyber-spank. Either one works for me. But it just seems like there aren't a lot of female spankers out there. And trying to find one to spank seems just as difficult. Maybe it is me and my complete lack of any social skills when it comes to the opposite sex.
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