Sarah said......It seems to me the simple answer would be to simply say what you mean, then no one is confused."
I totally agree with the above statement Sarah made. Submissive, Spankee, Switch or otherwise, just say what you mean and don't expect others to read your mind.
I also agree that I will be happy to play with BV anytime I can
Can't wait.. only 4 more days to go!
Suzy