Oh I must agree. Speaking for myself, if it's an otk spanking, I think the spanker should wear different shoes every time so if I'm over his lap I have some "new scenery" to look at. tee hee. Also, the outdoors sound great, that provides distractions for me...counting chirps from the birds, checking for which direction the wind is blowing, keeping an eye out for pretty butterflies and cute little lady bugs