severe
As for me the severest the better. But I am not in any case a sadist. I love especially canes a paddles. And bruised bottom is so wonderful. Everything is more complicated as we often think. The more pain the more endorphines and that make the spanking so amazing. But you must stand such a pain. It depends much on dom and sub also. Trust in each other is the most important.
And situation also. Mood in both sides do such things.
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