Oh Jess...that's wonderful!
I'm so happy for you (and Steve). You knew what you wanted/needed and didn't give up. Clear and direct communication works wonders, doesn't it? I believe you have just raised the bar!
When I look back over the years and how I had approached the subject, I wasn't giving my husband a complete picture. I was speaking in half sentences and just expecting him to read my mind. I (eventually) learned that that approach just didn't work. It was with the help of a few people here, at MSF, that I found the courage and the words to speak frankly and the results were staggering. I look forward to talking to you again in chat Jess!
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