There is an expression, you have to walk before you can run. The spankings depicted on Dallas Spanks Hard, while completely consensual, are on the severe side, and definitely not for newcomers. But if you never reach that level, that does NOT make you a wimp. You never know where your spanking desires might take you -- I'm a reasonably hard player, but there's a lot of things I can't/won't take. Don't compare yourself with others... that's never a good idea, and wreaks havoc on your confidence.
Oh, and screw guilt!
-- Erica