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Hi Jack
This is a great set of questions, I in my own way have thought much about this too . in my exsperence , in the past, way past, before spanking was known as a seperate part of the connection to the BDSM realm, as its own kind of whole kink, before the internet came to being a reality of person to person contact, the kind of brating we see now , was not considered acceptable or respectful , and as it was introduced to a lot of us back then as discipline and punnishment, even though a proclivity and a desire and more so for us hardwired to it, a strong need. it was mostly kept with in the protocal of the BDSM setting , and there where very few just spanking gatherings , private let alone public , so the settings in which one would behave was more strengent , at least i think it was , bratting persay was done in a reserved and in a much more lower tone then it takes life too today, times have changed , the restrictions and reservations of life in our parents time are not the kinds of restrictions and reservations we have today.
for me , though i have been called a brat many thousands of times , i wonder am i truly ? i am a submissive , and i do have a reservation of certin behaviors that i feel are compleatly unaccptable , but as well in many ways i think that my reservations come from having entered this much more public realm of the spanking scene,though a set of protocals that where set up in the world of darker BDSM protocals. and we where already a established couple ( dom and sub) years before the internet, and yet how dose one truly close off a natural part of them selves ? in the first place , i have always been sassy i have a confidence that leaves me bolder then some , though i do not believe in degrading someone to gain what i want or being outright hurtful to test the boundries my Dom has set for me in the first place , to gain a reaction, the word please comes to mind here , and i know how to use it , and i do when i want or need a spanking . however there is also the public time of playing and scening in those settings for me itis (play time) i want it to be lighthearted and fun , and i will Brat! i will tease a Top , i will use tools of the trade persay , silly string , bubbles , even costumes , i will bring foam darts and other toys and i love to watch a great brat at work, for me i want the party to be a party , lots of laughter and comeradrie and of corse a lot of spanking in a fun and non commited way. the kind of spanking i recive in a party setting is not with the same kind of seriousness i recive within the boundries of my relationship and one other thing we need to consider is that todays yournger set of adults have a different view of what is considered morally acceptable compared to us that are middled age.
and with given thought to that we as well must consider that even in the realm of spanking this is a indevidual proclivity and what is right for one may not be right for anouther and vice a versa so havign a good communication base with anyone you scene with is very important and when you are attending a gathering , finding out what is acceptable behavior in the public arena you are in is allways good too .
i hope i did not scoot to far off the subject of your question . if i did emmm Spank me !
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