Anyone who knows me knows that respect is a very big issue with me, both in the way I choose to conduct myself so that others may have respect for me, and in the people I choose to associate with. I won't submit to or play with anyone who doesn't command my respect. I reserve the "Sir" title for those whom have earned and kept my respect. This has always been my issue with bratting... I always just thought it was an annoying antic, almost malicious Certain friends in the lifestyle have dubbed me the "anti-brat". I knew this from the get-go, though. There was no misguided newbie phase where I thought I had to resort to silly string and salt in someone's coffee to see the demonstration of power I wanted.
On the other hand, I have a wicked tongue sometimes. It's what always gets me into trouble. It's my sense of humor, and the comments are always said in fun with no ill-will intended. I know some people consider that bratty, though. I know I don't, I guess it's a matter of perception. As far as the respect issue goes here, sure the comments would be disrespectful if they were taken at face value. The impish smile and mischeivious eyes ought to negate the negativity though, right? Is it still disrespect if it's just good-natured fun?
I don't think we have any limitations on whatever hats (titles?) we may wear on any given day. You can be completely submissive one day, and have an insatiable, fiery streak the next. Maybe even it's a matter of one parter developing one set of characers, and another invigorating a whole different set. It's a woman's perogative to be unpredictable
