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Not sure this is it
well I may not answer the question either but I'll try. Let me say this though when i was engaged to a vanilla this spanking desire was almost nonexisitant. We had such a great emotional, physical, spiritual connection that I didn't need anything else. That said I was fully aware then a few years down the road my need for spanking might surface and I may have been stuck.
But we didn't make it that long and when things started going south with us and I stopped feeling that connection..... LOOK OUT! I needed spanking like I need water.
So for me spanking is about connection on a whole new level with some one else. I need that connection.
Just me,
Kaylex
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