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Originally Posted by cassygray
He's definately an ass-man so thats a plus in my favor. Problem is he wants to rub it and grab it instead of smack it. lol.  |
I'm one, too, but I like ALL of that!
Work on him and talk to some others here. If it's not in their core, they may never get beyond their (boring
) vanilla persona, but I know of several vanilla hubby's/partners who do a great job of accommodating the kink, and are happy to do so.