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Originally Posted by Gary D.
well of course we turn the intensity up on occassion. sometimes announced and sometimes not. got to keep a little variety in to spice things up. nothing like letting her get that false sense of routine or predictability built up then throwing a few twists in 
Gary D. |
I get this. And yet.... Maybe it depends on personality type. I don't like surprises. I had a top take the liberty of introducing me to what he claimed was an authentic school paddle experience, without warning me of what he was about to do; I momentarily blacked out and collapsed from the force of it. I really would have liked to have known that was coming.
I do appreciate variation and am an adventurous type, but I like to see the roadmap first.