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Dear Southern Sweetie…
I feel ya girl, I was married to a couple vanilla ladies before finding my beloved soul mate Veronica.
The main point is, you are who are, kink and all. While it is possible to bury this part of yourself for a period of time, you may find that your basic need for DD, D/s or whatever label you care to put on it, will always resurface. I can’t tell you how many times over the years I would pitch my spanking collection of tapes and magazines trying to suppress this part of me. You know what? I firmly believe you can’t… And I have stopped trying… We embrace the DD lifestyle, it works for us.
In case you haven’t heard of this book, have your husband read this…
When Someone You Love Is Kinky: By: Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt
In conclusion, try and keep the anger/depression out of this. Remember depression is just anger turned inward, (that’s what Veronica says anyway) while you both come to grips with the lifestyle, it is who you are, I am pleased to see that your husband is at least willing to try, some guys just can’t take their women in hand… funny it just comes so natural to me!
Best Wishes,
Dr. D.
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