[iggy]

Oh I think words matter a whole lot. Words set up a frame of mind, tone and atmospher and what one person likes another might not.

For example...if someone started calling me "bitch" or "slut" or "whore" or other types of things like that, that'd be pretty much it and it would go no further...but I know there are people who simply adore that type of talk.

I find I like words like "naughty" and well I like 'little' with almost anything...yet I do NOT think I am naughty or little...but I still like those words. Oh I like "wench" too...don't know why. Basically if the tone is teasing and lighthearted and fun I'd probably be OK with it...but if it starts getting disparaging or to be a put-down then I'm gonna turn into the ice queen real fast.