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Originally Posted by garyspk
...there is nothing that creeps me out more than a male "top" telling a female about how much discipline she needs...or "helping" her with her issues, etc.
I'm all for role play and that type of thing, but there's a real fine line and it's hard to define. But I know it when I see it or hear it.
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For me where it divides out is understanding what the girl both wants and needs. There are some, like Adelina, for whom it would be a true violation to do what she says. While being a spanko, her needs are not on the discipline and guidance realm. Others want that guidance and discipline. Along with other things, it actually helps them to be better than they can on their own.
It boils down to the fact that one must have an open mind and understand that the spanking world of others is not necessarily your own spanking world, and to communication. There's no excuse for for
assuming what someone else wants or needs.