[Farmgirl]

Yes, I definitely want my guy to spank me, but then I've always been submissive to boys and then men since I was a kid. With my guy and me it's foreplay, and has been since we first dated, but it also reaffirms me as the subordinate and submissive one in the relationship. It's light to moderate, bare bottom and usually lengthy, and with the right timing and best circumstances is very arousing to both of us. And, oh yes, great sex follows!

It was very frequent when we were first together. Now, twenty years later, it happens once or twice a month. I would like it oftener, but having a child running around rather restricts our activities.