[Farmgirl]

Hi Heather....I don't meet all of your criteria, but thought I would post here anyway. I was raised by my grandmother, who was 'old school' as they say, and who spanked me hard and often. I morphed from those spankings, which were not in the least pleasant, into an interest in being spanked by boys (not girls). In my teen years this did in fact happen, as I was a pretty blatant tease and flirt. Eventually it led to my relationship with the loving (and very dominant) guy who is now my husband.

I came out of high school thinking I was seriously weird to like being spanked, but that changed when I discovered the internet and chatted with people much like myself. I found I wasn't weird and was actually pretty normal, all things considered, but with this 'special interest.'

Anyway, I'm definitely the "f" in an M/f relationship and substantially all of my F/f spankings were in childhood. But like you I do enjoy talking about it. In the beginning, chatting on the internet was a wonderful catharsis for me, dredging up all the stuff I had suppressed, and I still find it liberating.