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Chuckles has a very good point in reference to using a safe word. What I think your problem is that you are afraid that you are going too far. If your g/f likes what you are doing, you should relax and do it to her. If you are too close to or have exceeded her limits, then she should use a safe word that is agreeable with both of you. The safe word should not be the words NO or STOP, as many people being spanked may use those words and not mean it. They actually want you to keep going. I use MERCY as it is not a word that I commonly use, but it can be any word that she wouldn't commonly use when she is getting spanked. This just may make it easier for you to adjust, and believe me, you will adjust as time goes on. Just make sure that you respect any limits that she puts on your sessions.
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