hi all
 

why with over 5000 members is our record only 125 in one night this annoys me ,people are taking the mickey . this is the most friendliest and helpful site i been on! yet stangers continue to take the mick! i think it should be mandatory for people not to view anything without giviing details! after all what do they want for free? i want loyalty i met my gf here so its got to be worth registering for

I'll try to answer this one.

It does frustrate me sometimes that we have so many members, but only a small proportion actively contribute.

There are a still a lot of people who do not feel comfortable coming out in public with their interest in what we like. And I respect that. Just know that if someone DOES want to "stick his or her toe in the water," we will be here!

perhaps they are just reading the posts and learning things. i dont think its fair to make someone give details. i choose to share my stuff, if i was forced, i dont think i'd stay.