My Introduction
 

I am a 43 year old, married man.

The idea of being spanked by women first fascinated me when I was 8
years old. My family moved from Chicago to Texas, where school
paddling was quite common. I had no idea what was going to take place
the first time I saw a kid dragged out in the hallway by the teacher
and paddled, but it sure did get my heart racing!

I am new to the spanking scene and have never actually been spanked.
I was a good kid in school and never got to taste that paddle. My
wife, bless her heart, has tried to spank me but just doesn't have
the personality for it. Besides, the dynamics of our relationship
contradict much of what I am looking for in a spanking. We both have
come to the mutual agreement that I need to pursue my interest in
spanking outside our marriage. I have been given her both blessing
and approval. My interest is in being the spankee, with a female
spanker.

I am just now coming out of the closet with intersts in adult spanking. I have been posting to another message board for the past month. I am starting to feel pretty comfortable with this, so here I am. I hope to make some new friends here also.

Welcome to MSF, wkp. *waves*

WKP,

Welcome to our forum. You'll find we're the friendly sort...

Hullo wkp. :)

Welcome to the board, wkp. I think you'll find it's a friendly place!

It's great that you have an understanding spouse!

sarah

Thanks everyone for the kind welcome!

Sarah, I consider myself very fortunate to have such an understanding spouse. I know many would not be so understanding about this.

I missed this thread somehow, but left you a welcome in another one. Anyway, for the intro thread, welcome again. ;)

What was the situation with your wife and your spanking interest? Were you still undercover with your interest when you married, i.e. she did not know? If so, what was her reaction when you first told her? What caused you to first tell her?

I told her long before we were married, probably within the first 6 months of when we met. I don't know why, probably becuase I felt so comfortable with her. That and I was hoping to get spanked too, lol! She kind of giggled about it at first, said she wasn't into it, but agreed to try anyway.