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Hi Indigo Velvet,

Yes, the act of spanking is one person striking another person's bottom, but I doubt that it is that 'bland' for very many people.
What about the trust and confidence that both parties must have in each other in order to safely engage in such an activity?

As I have been told many times 'Anyone can strike a bottom' and this is true, physically anyone can do that, but doesn't it take someone a bit special, someone you trust, someone you know that they will not take you beyond your limits, to make it a worthwhile experience?

Isn's it worth anything to know that you are being spanked because someone cares enough about you to spank you, rather that just be spanked for the sake of smacking a bottom???


Regards,

Ami.xx.

I've spent many years in the scene and I've found that spankos rarely stray into bondage or other aspects of the B&D scene. At parties they usually are people representing all aspects of B&D but rarely anyone into S&M. Only a professional would likely be into all aspects of the B&D scene, after all, they got to make a living. The majority of us stick to a small niche that appeals to us.